A Message From God

On this day of your life, Elouisa, we believe God wants you to know ... that love has already found you.
	So much time has been spent trying to make yourself lovable. Trying to make yourself more attractive, more interesting. But love has already found you, perfect and pure love. Rest assured that God loves you just the way you are.

Tomorrow Might Be Too Late...

If you're mad at someone and nobody's there to fix the situation... you fix it. Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if you don't, tomorrow can be too late. 

If you're in love with somebody, but that person doesn't know... tell her/him. Maybe today, that person is also in love with you. And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late. 

If you really want to kiss somebody... kiss her/him. Maybe that person wants a kiss from you, too. And if you don't kiss her/him today, tomorrow can be too late. 

If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you... tell her/him. Maybe that person has always loved you. And if you don't tell her/him today, tomorrow can be too late. 

If you need a hug of a friend... ask her/him for it. Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late. 

If you really have friends who you appreciate... tell them. Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don't and they leave or go far away today, tomorrow can be too late. 

If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them... do it. Maybe you have them there to show them how you feel. That if you don't and they leave today, and then tomorrow can be too late.  

Let every person in your life know how much you care about them. You’ll see how you’re going to know that there are people who cared about you that you didn’t know. Show them how important they are in your life because tomorrow might be too late.

The Wallet

By: Arnold Fine

I read this very inspiring short story in my Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul which really touched my heart and tears run down my eyes. As I hold on to that experience, I would like to share this story to all of you. I hope this will inspire you to love someone in so many different ways.

As I walked home one freezing day, I stumbled on a wallet someone had lost in the street. I picked it up and looked inside to find some identification so I could call the owner. But the wallet contained only three dollars and a crumpled letter that looked as if it had been in there for years.

The envelope was worn and the only thing that was legible on it was the return address. I started to open the letter, hoping to find some clue. Then I saw the dateline-1924. The letter had been written almost sixty years earlier.

It was written in a beautiful feminine handwriting, on powder-blue stationary with a little flower in the left-hand corner. It was a “Dear John” letter that told the recipient, whose name appeared to be Michael, that the writer could not see him anymore because her mother forbade it. Even so, she wrote that she would always love him. It was signed Hannah.

It was a beautiful letter, but there was no way, except for the name Michael, to identify the owner. Maybe if I called information, the operator could find a phone listing for the address on the envelope.

“Operator,” I began, “this is an unusual request. I’m trying to find the owner of a wallet that I found. Is there any way you can tell me if there is a phone number for an address that was on an envelope in the wallet?”

She suggested I speak with her supervisor, who hesitated for a moment, then said, “Well, there is a phone listing at that address, but I can’t give you the number.” She said as a courtesy, she would call that number, explain my story and ask whoever answered if the person wanted to connect me. I waited a few minutes and then supervisor was back on line. “I have a party who will speak with you.”

I asked the woman on the other end of the line if she knew anyone by the name of Hannah. She gasped. “Oh! We bought this house from a family who had a daughter named Hannah. But that was thirty years ago!”

“Would you know where that family could be located now?” I asked.

“I remember that Hannah had to place her mother in a nursing home some years ago,” the woman said. “Maybe if you got in touch with them, they might be able to track down the daughter.”

She gave me the name of the nursing home, and I called the number. The woman on the phone told me the old lady had passed away some year ago, but the nursing home did have a phone number for where the daughter might be living.

I thanked the person at the nursing home and phoned the number she gave me. The woman who answered explained that Hannah herself was now living in a nursing home.

This whole thing is stupid, I thought to myself. Why am I making such a big deal over finding the owner of a wallet that has only three dollars and a letter that is almost sixty years old?

Nevertheless, I called the nursing home in which Hannah was supposed to be living, and the man who answered the phone told me, “Yes, Hannah is staying with us.” Even though it was already 10 P.M., I asked if I could come by to see her. “Well, he said hesitantly, “if you want to take a chance, she might he in the day room watching television.”

I thanked him and drove over to the nursing home. The night nurse and a guard greeted me at the door. We went up to third floor of the large building. In the day room, the nurse introduced me to Hannah. She was a sweet silver-haired old-timer with a warm smile and a twinkle in her eye.

I told her about finding the wallet and showed her the letter. The second she saw the powder-blue envelope with that little flower on the left, she took a deep breath and said, “Young man, this letter was the last contact I ever had with Michael.”

She looked away for a moment, deep in thought, and then said softly, “I loved him very much. But I was only sixteen at the time and my mother felt I was too young. Oh, he was so handsome. He looked like Sean Connery, the actor.

“Yes,” she continued, “Michael Goldstein was a wonderful person. If you should find him, tell him I think of him often. And,” she hesitated for a moment, almost biting her lip, “tell him I still love him. You know,” she said, smiling as tears welled up in her eyes, “I never did marry. I guess no one ever matched up to Michael…”

I thanked Hannah and said good-bye. I took the elevator to the first floor and as I stood by the door, the guard there asked, “Was the old lady able to help you?” I told him she had given me a lead. “At least I have a last name. But I think I’ll let it go for a while. I spent almost the whole day trying to find the owner of this wallet.”

I had taken out the wallet, which was a simple brown leather case with red lacing on the side. When the guard saw it, he said, “Hey, wait a minute! That’s Mr. Goldstein’s wallet. I’d know it anywhere with that bright red lacing. He’s always losing that wallet. I must have found it in the halls at least three times.”

“Who’s Mr. Goldstein?” I asked, as my hand began to shake. “He’s one of the old-timers on the eighth floor. That’s Mike Goldstein’s wallet for sure. He must have lost it on one of his walks.”

I thanked the guard and quickly ran back to the nurse’s office. I told her what the guard had said. We went back to the elevator and got on. I prayed that Mr. Goldstein would be up. On the eighth floor, the floor nurse said, “I think he’s still in the day room. He likes to read at night. He’s a darling old man.”

We went to the only room that had any lights on, and there was a man reading a book. The nurse went over to him and asked if he had lost his wallet. Mr. Goldstein looked up with surprise, put his hand in his back pocket and said, “Oh, it is missing!”

“This kind gentleman found a wallet and we wondered if it could be yours.” I handed Mr. Goldstein the wallet, and the second he saw it, he smiled with relief and said, “Yes, that’s it! It must have dropped out of my pocket this afternoon. I want to give you a reward.” I said, “No, thank you. But I have to tell you something. I read the letter in the hope of finding out who owned the wallet.”

The smile on his face suddenly disappeared. “You read that letter?” I told him, “Not only did I read it, I think I know where Hannah is.” He suddenly grew pale. “Hannah? You know where she is? How is she? Is she still as pretty as she was? Please, tell me,” he begged. “She’s fine… just as pretty as when you knew her,” I said softly.

The old man smile with anticipation and asked, “Could you tell me where she is? I want to call her tomorrow.” He grabbed my hand and said, “You something, mister? I was so in love with that girl that when the letter came, my life literally ended. I never married. I guess I’ve always loved her.”

“Michael,” I said, “Come with me.” We took the elevator to the third floor. The hallways were darkened and only one or two little night lights lit our way to the day room, where Hannah was sitting alone, watching the television. The nurse walked over to her. “Hannah,” she said softly, pointing to Michael, who was waiting with me in the doorway. “Do you know this man?” She adjusted her glasses, looked for a moment, but didn’t say a word.

Michael said softly, almost in a whisper, “Hanna, its Michael. Do you remember me?” She gasped. “Michael! I don’t believe it! Michael! It’s you! My Michael” he walked slowly toward her, and they embraced. The nurse and I left with tears streaming down our faces. “See,” I said. “See how the good Lord works! If it’s meant to be, it will be.”

About three weeks later, I got a call at my office from the nursing home. “Can you break away on Sunday to attend a wedding? Michael and Hannah are going to tie the knot!”

It was a beautiful wedding, with all the people at the nursing home dressed up to join in the celebration. Hannah wore a light beige dress and looked beautiful. Michael wore a dark blue suit and stood tall. They made me their best man. The hospital gave them their own room, and if you ever wanted to see a seventy-six-year-old bride and seventy-nine-year-old groom acting like two teenagers, you had to see this couple. A perfect ending for a love affair that had lasted nearly sixty years.

Simple Thoughts About Love

THE OLD BELIEF
If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back, he’s yours forever.

THE TRUTH MODIFICATION
If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back, it doesn't mean a damn thing because he can always leave you again. If he really loves you, he shouldn't have left you in the first place.

Scared Of Commitment

Commitment is a very strong word. Some people (especially guys) see prison bars when they hear this word. Commitment isn’t such a bad thing. Presently, if you are seriously committed to someone you know what I mean. If you’re still too damn scared and believing in the totally misogynistic “Why buy the cow?” catch phrase then listen up. Most people who are afraid of commitment end up alone. Believe it or not, being scared of commitment is probably the topmost reason why singletons remain singletons for the rest of their lives.

Commitment is not the opposite of freedom. Committed people have a very profound understanding of love and all it entails. Committed people are happy to commit. Your promise is also the other person’s promise. The best part about promising your heart to someone is that you’re someone also promises her/his heart to you. Being promised to be the only passion in a person’s life is the best gift a person can give you. Just think of the number of people still seeking for love – those who have tried and fails, those who have tried some more, only to fail again.

Think about the value of fidelity. When other people start getting bored with their long time partners, you get more and more passionate. Fidelity is about being with only one person for the rest of your life. The value of fidelity is that you receive the same loyalty, too. Being in a relationship requires being exclusive with one another. This shouldn’t be too hard. If the person you love is the one you already have, could you want anyone else?